Human Behavior and its predictability

Human Behavior…… Here’s the thing, human behavior is quantifiable.  If you pay attention and what I mean by paying attention, listen and watch with intent.  When you start to think that it’s you and you did something wrong to make the relationship go awry, think again!  Don’t hit the self-destructive button just yet!  I have jumped into this rabbit hole a few times.  

For example, the first time you discover someone has lied to you, regardless of their reasons, if they have lied to you.... It sets a precedent for things to come.  Yes, I am writing from personal experience.  There once was a fella who lied to me not once but twice about something so ridiculous, whom also told me his pet peeve was unnecessary lying! WTF? Really? All before I had even met him face to face. 

That’s just one example.  When a situation like this arises, you can be sure that more bad behavior is on the way.  So pay attention, don’t just shrug it off.  We all find ourselves in situations we are willing to forgive and let things that we may consider a small mistake, slide.  I get that.  I had an experience where I did just that.  I let it slide and the first time we met face to face, we had an excellent weekend.  I felt connected to this individual.  However, as time went on things started to spiral.  I went back to the beginning and had I actually taken some data on his behavior, a trend line would have appeared.  MHM.  

Yes, Maya had a point.

Live and Love Fiercely, 

Aoooooo!