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I was thinking about this earlier; What do I want out of a relationship?  I keep saying Kindness, Compassion, Respect, and Love.  That seems pretty simple, right? Things that make you go hmmmmm...

I know I can be a pill at times.  I have been a single mom for about a decade now.  Being a single mom turns you into a warrior with some heavy armor.  What I mean by that is,  I am ambitious, driven, independent, passionate, and strong willed.  I have been doin' me for awhile.  So what do I want in a Man? I want a Man that will create a "Heaven in hell's despair" (William Blake).  Ahh... and What do I mean by that?  I want to curl up into his soul and feel comfort when I feel weak.  

I am not afraid of being in a relationship.  If I make the decision to become someone's partner in crime, I give that individual my all.  I open the doors to my soul.  However, that comes at a great cost, if a crack in the foundation can not be repaired, the foundation crumbles and my doors slam shut.  Trust is vital in any relationship.  It is the foundation.  

I don't need a man to shower me with money. I want a man who can be there for me emotionally, physically, spiritually, and mentally.