Sex AKA as Fifty SHADES of ROSE

Lets get real for a few minutes.  Sex is awesome, I love connecting with another human being on such a powerful level.  Beautiful.  However, SEX tends to cloud our judgment.  I am who I am. I don't like  playing silly dating games.  I am honest and upfront about what I want.  I don't believe in fairy tales, however I am an optimistic person. Although there are times when that optimism has gotten me into trouble! YIKES.  The exception to the rule is about .00000000001%.  We live in a world where men and women are scrambling to figure out what dating game they should play.  Does he like me?  How can I get her to suck my dick?... Basically, How can I manipulate him or her. ABHORRENT behavior. For fucks sake, seriously?  Now for the most potent piece of information.  

That's right, don't have sex with a man on the first date.  I am not saying you have to make him work for it or play silly mind games, but if you don't spread your legs and allow him to penetrate your VAGINA on the first date, you won't decide to give him the benefit of the doubt when he steps outside of those personal boundaries we set for ourselves. It is way easier to kick a motherfucker to the curb when they do something that you know you wouldn't put up with if you don't have sex with him right away.  Like it or not, sex does cloud your judgement.  It is not just LOVE that clouds your judgement.  

Take it easy.  Go out on a few dates and see how he treats you.  When I say a few dates, that is a case by case basis.  There really isn't a magical number.  I would say go on at least three good substantial dates. What I mean by substantial, I mean a date where there is good conversation flowing and watch how he treats you. Try coffee first. Usually, your inner wild woman will let you know what's up (that's if you have cultivated a relationship with your inner wild woman).  At any rate, not having sex on the first date isn't "old fashioned".  You deserve better and any man who wants to get to know you will truly be interested in who you are.  

Live and Love Fiercely!

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